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uy;a;hd isxy, uu uqia,sï
isys úl,a fjklï l=vq î,d .Ekq msßñ tl f.dfâ 
i;=gq jqK uqia,sï ;reKsh lshmq l;dj n,kakflda

fï jk úg u;ao%jH wfma rg mqrdu jHdma; jqkq jix.;hla njg m;afj,d' Èfkfka Èk rfÜ iEu wiailska uq,a,lskau fkdfhla wdldrfha u;ao%jH uydmßudKfhka w;a wvx.=jg m;ajkjd' fï úÈhg u;ao%jH ksid ;u Ôú;hu úkdY lr.;a ;reK ;reKshka" jeäysáhka ´kE ;rï fmkajd fokak mqÆjka' ta jf.au fï u;a rl=idg weíneys ù isá who tys we;s wksis M, úmdl .eks ksis wdldrj y÷kdf.k thska ñ§ ;u Ôú;h id¾:l lr.;a l;do wfma iudcfha wikakg olskakg ,efnkjd'




fï i;swka; mqj;a m;la úiska jd¾;d lr ;snQ tjeks ixfõ§ l;djla'

fifkfynr ujla isÛs;s orefjla ;=re¿ lrf.k isàu idudkH oel=uls' tfy;a ì;a;s i;rlska jg jQ u;ao%jH úfYdaOk uOHia:dkhl ;j;a ldka;djka /ila w;r" idudkH ldurhl ;reK ujla w; orefjla iuÛ Ôj;ajkjd oelSu úr,h' tjeks yo llshjk oiqkla miq.sh Èkl wms u;ao%jH úfYdaOk uOHia:dkhl§ ÿáuq' fujeks oiqka oelSu o is;a mdrjkakls' tfy;a ;ejqKq is; md,kh lrf.k wms ta ;reK uj iuÛ l;d nydlf<uq'

weh fld<U f.kao.ï fmd<fõ Ôj;a jk uqia,sï ldka;djls' isxy, ;reKhl= iuÛ w;sk; f.k wdorfhka ne÷Kq Tjqka fom<g orejka ;sfofkl= isá;s' tfy;a ysßu,a ;reKúfha isg u;a l=vqj,g weíneys jQ fï wUqieñ hqj<g u;ska f;dr f,djla ke;s úh' oreu,a,ka ,eî mqxÑ mjq, áflka ál jevqK o Tõyq Èfkka" Èk u;a l=vqj,gu we¨Ky' orejkag msá melÜ tl ke;s jqjo" l=vq melÜ tl fkdue;sj Ôú;hla ke;s ;rug Tjqyq u;a l=vqj,g weíneys jQy' l=vq îug uqo,a wf;a ke;s jk úg u;a l=vq úls”ug Tõyq fm<UqKy' Tjqka l=vq;a iuÛ kS;sfha /qyekg fldgq ù ysf¾ .sh jdr wkka;h' wehf.a ieñhd l=vq;a iuÛ fmd,sishg fldgq ù wog o ysf¾h' Tjqka .; l< u;af,da,S ld,lKaKs Ôú;h .ek l,lsreKq weh orejka .ek is;d u;ska ksoyia ùu i|yd fï úfYdaOk uOHia:dkhg meñK isákakSh'




;rula oekqï f;areï we;s jeäuy,a orejka fofokd ;u kekaoKshg Ndr§ weh w; orejd /qf.keú;a we;af;a w;a;ïudf.a f,a lsrg fkdyefrk ksidh' bÈßfha wiqkaf.k isák wehf.a Wl=f,a isg mqxÑ isÛs;a;sh wm fj;g iqr;,a iskd md;s' úfgl ujg ;Èka ;=re¨ ù ism.ks;s' fyd¢ka jevqKq" m‍%shukdm iqÿ fodaKsh yqr;,a jk whqre olsk úg wmg rdcldßh wu;l úh' jpk uquqKk isÛs;a;shf.a yqr;,a nyg udhï ù isá wms mshú isyshg meñK ujg l;d lf<uq' kï .ï uk•l,ams; lrñka wms wehg w¨;a kula mgnekafouq' ta ‘is;a;s'''’ oeka l;d lrkafka is;a;sh' weh wmg lshkafka u;a l=vq ksid Tjqkaf.a Ôú; l=vq jQ l;djh'''

‘‘wms Ôj;a fjkafka fld<U l=Kq we<la woaor' uf.a uy f.j¨;a fld<U fnd/q,af,' uy;a;hd ó.uqfõ' th;a l=vq fndk flfkla' wms fokakd w÷r.;af;a ud <Ûg l=vq .kak weú;a' t;fldg uu l=vq úl=Kkjd'''’’ wehf.a uqj fukau weiq;a l;d lrk .dkh' kdß foayhlska yevldr" iql=ud, wehg ;ju;a jhi wjqreÿ ;siay;rls' u;a l=vqj,g weíneys fkdfjkak weh ienEu iqrEmsKshls' tfy;a oeka wehf.a o;auq,a Èh ù uqyqK .s,d nei we;af;a u;a l=vqj, úIgh'

‘‘uu biafldaf,a .sfha oyh jir mka;shg ú;rhs' Bg miafia kekao,df.a f.or .syska k;r jqKd' kekao,d Ôj;a jqfK;a fld<U j;a;l' ál ojila hkfldg ta j;a; ug fyd|g yqre jqKd' j;af;a hd¿fjd we;s jqKd' j;af;a fl,af,d y;r fofkla uf.a fyd|u hd¿fjd jqKd' .uka ìuka .sfha" lEfõ ìõfõ wms mia fokd tlg' tfyu bkakfldg wmsg ys;=Kd l=vq pqÜgla î,d n,kak' ta j;a;g l=vq" .xcd lshkafka idudkH fohla' j;af;a iShla mÈxÑ fj,d ysáhd kï wiQjlau u;ao%jH mdúÉÑ flrejd' l=vq ìõfõ ke;af;a mqxÑ Wkqhs" weúo.kak neßj ysáh wdÉÑ,d" iSh,hs ú;rhs'''’’

‘‘l=vq melÜ tlla wrf.k wms miafok;a tlalu ìõjd' fyd| *s,Ska tlla oekqKd' fojeks ojfi;a l=vq melÜ tlla wrf.k ìõjd' i;shla" folla hkfldg l=vq melÜ tl wmsg .Efjkak;a uÈ jqKd' Bg miafia wms tl fõ,lg l=vq melÜ fol" ;=kla .;a;d' tfyu ojiska" oji wms fndk l=vq melÜ m‍%udKh jeä jqKd' Wfoa l=vq fndkak mgka .;a;u @ kskaog hklïu l=vq fndk ;;a;ajhg m;a jqKd' ál ojila hkfldg wms;a tlal l=vq fndkak j;af;a fld,af,d ;=kay;r fofkl=;a fiÜ jqKd' Bg miafia wmsg i,a,s ke;s jqK;a we;s fjkak u;a fjkak l=vq ;snqKd' isys úl,a fjklï l=vq î,d u;a fj,d .Ekq msßñ tl f.dfå i;=gq jqKd' yßu úfkdaofhka wfma Ôú; l=vq jqKd' wms .Ekq fjÉp yeá okafk we|f.k ysáh u,a .jqï ú;rhs'''’’

‘‘uu l=vq fndkak .kakfldg jhi wjqreÿ oywgla ú;r we;s' l=vq ìõjd lsh,d ug nKskak" .ykak ljqrej;a ysáfh;a kE' wf;a i,a,s ;sfhkjd kï l=vq fndkak ´k ;rï ksoyi ;snqKd' ta ksoyfika Wmßu m‍%fhdackh wrf.k we;s fjkak l=vq ìõjd' we;s fjkak foal=;a kE" ke;s fjkak foal=;a ke;s jqKydu uu j;af;a l=vq úl=Kkak mgka .;a;d' mE,shf.dv ;eklska l=vq wrf.k melÜ lr,d úl=Kqjd' uu .;af;a l=vq .‍%Eï tl wgodyhs' taflka melÜ oyihla yo,d tl melÜ tlla remsh,a ody.dfKa úl=Kqjd' tl ojig remsh,a oy myf<diaodyl l=vq úl=Kqjd' ta yïn lrmq i,a,sj,ska y;awgodyla l=vq fndkak úhoï l<d' ìiakia tl mgka wrf.k ál ojila hkfldg j;af;a fyd| f*uia l=Ùähla jqKd' ku lsõju wy," my, j;=j, wh;a udj w÷rk .dkg m;a jqKd' tfyu ìiakia tl lrf.k hkfldg ojila j;a;g fmd,sish mek,d l=vq;a tlal udj fldgq jqKd' wem ke;s jqKd' udi ;=klg we;=<g .shd' ysrf.or lsh,d l=vqj,ska wvqjla ;snqfKa kE' BIs lEIa tl hjk iqkx.=jg uf.a w;g l=vq melÜ tl wdjd' lEu" îu ál f.oßka" hd¿fjd f.k;a ÿkakd' ta;a ksoyila ke;s ysr.; Ôúf;a kï ug ;s;a; jqKd' udi ;=k f.jklï weÛs,s .ek" .ek ysáhd'''’’

‘‘ysfrka ksoyia fj,d wdmq ojfia b|,d uu kej; ìiakia mgka .;a;d' ìiakia lrf.k l=vq îf.k wd;,a tfla bkakfldg ;uhs uf.a uy;a;hd uqK.eyqfKa' thd t;fldg fld<U riaidjla l<d' t;fldg;a thd fyd|gu l=vq fndkjd' l=vq melÜ tl .kak wdfõ ud <Ûg' fjk msßñ jf.a fkfuhs thdj oelmq m<uq ojfia b|,d ug yß wuq;a;la oekqKd' ál ojila hkfldg th;a ux .ek Wkkaÿ fjkjd lsh,d ug f;areKd' yenehs fjk msßñ jf.a uia lvdf.k lkak jf.a uf.a weÛ Èyd n,df.k f;d,a lEfõ kE' f<ka.;= úÈyg uf.a Èyd ne¨jd' l;d ny l<d' thd j;a;g tklx uu;a u. n,df.k bkak ;;a;ajhg m;a jqKd' Tfydu hkfldg ojila thd fl<skau weyqjd ‘uu Thdg leue;shs''' Thd fudlo lshkafka'''’ lsh,d' .;a lggu uu;a lsõjd leu;shs lsh,d' Bg myqfjksod b|,u wms fokakd tfya fufya .shd' uu lsisu fohla thdg yex.=fõ kE' uu uqia,sï' thd isxy,' ug jvd wjqreÿ mylska nd,hs' ta;a cd;s fío" jhia mr;rh wmsg m‍%Yak jqfKa kE' fome;af;au f.j,aj,skq;a wfma iïnkaOhg m‍%Yak oeïfï kE' ta jf.au wms fokakd w;r ryia ;snqfK;a kE' iïnkaOh mgka .;a; ojfia b|,d wms fokakd tlg l=vq ìõjd'''’’



‘‘lido nekaod lsh,d lsisu fjkila jqfK;a kE' lid|h w;aika lrmq ojfia wUq ieñhka úÈyg ysáfh;a fokak tlal fyd|gu l=vq î,d' tod b|,d yeuodu Wfoa keÛsÜg meÿfrkau fokakd tlal l=vq ìõjd' iuyr ojiaj,g thd l=,S jevj,g .shd' ke;s kï ug l=vq melÜ lrkak" úl=Kkak Woõ lrf.k f.org fj,d ysáhd' uu ;ksfhka lrkjg jvd ìiakia tl jeä jqKd' ta;a wms fokakgu l=vq fndkak ta ,efnk wdodhu;a uÈ jqKd' leg myla úl=Kqfjd;a lE,s myla wms fokakd ìõjd' wms fokakg l=vq fndkak ú;rla ojilg remsh,a oyodyla ú;r úhoï jqKd' lEj ìõjd" ,iaikg we|,d" me<|,d ysáhd' yïn lrk fiaru i,a,s fcd,shg úhoï l<d' Ôj;a jqfKa l=,S f.orl' tfyu bkakfldg f,dl= orejd yïn fjkak wdjd' mq;d yïn fj,d lsß î,d bjr fjkak;a l,sfhka fojeks orej;a ,efnkak wdjd' orefjd ,efnkak ysáhd" orefjd ,enqKd lsh,d uf.a ìiakia tl k;r jqfKa kE' yenehs orefjd ,efnkak Tkak" fukak ojiaj, l=vq ìõfõ kE' yïn fj,;a ál ojila hklï l=vq ìõfõ kE' m‍%iQ;s fõokdj ord.kak mq¿jka jqK;a l=vq isla tl ug

ord.kak neß jqKd' orefjd ,eì,d lsß fok ldf,a l=vq isla tl bjif.k ysáhd' lsß k;r lrmq .uka wdfhu;a l=vq fndkak .;a;d'''’’

‘‘orefjd fokakd álla f,dl= fjkfldg kekaoïud <Û k;r lr,d biafldaf,a weßhd' wms fokakd ú;rla j;a;g weú;a l=vq ìiakia tl lrf.k Ôj;a jqKd' tfyu hkfldg wdfhu;a j;djla l=vq;a tlal fmd,sishg fldgq fj,d uu nkaOkd.dr.; jqKd' ta j;dfj;a udi ;=klska ksoyia fj,d wdjd' uu we;=<g .shd lsh,d ìiakia k;r fj,d ;snqfKa kE' uf.a ukqiaihd ìiakia tl fyd|g lrf.k .syska ;snqKd' uf.a l=vq ìiakia tl k;r jqfKa ysf¾ bkak udi lsysmfha§ ú;rhs' t<sfha ysgmq yeuodu ìiakia tl l<d' y;r j;djla ysf¾ .syska ;sfhkjd' orefjd fokakd kekaoïud <Û yefok ksid uu ysf¾ .shd lsh,d ta whg .dkla kE' wka;su j;dfõ ysfrka ksoyia fj,d weú;a ìiakia tl lrf.k Ôj;a fjkfldg pQá ÿj;a ,enqKd'''’’

‘‘pQá ÿjg jhi wjqreÿ folyudrhs' f,dl= mq;dg oyhhs' fojeks ÿjg wghs' f,dl= orefjd fokakd jf.a fkfuhs pQá ÿj uu ke;sj tl /qhlaj;a bkafka kE' oeka orejd ke;sj ug;a bkak nE' fuhd uf.a mK jf.a' hk ´kEu ;ekl wrf.k hkjd' pQá ÿj nvg wdmq ojfia b|,d ug l=vq wmamsßhhs' l=vq îmq .uka jukh .shd' ÿj ,eì,;a udi yh" y;la hklï l=vq ìõfõ kE' l=vq f.dfåu ,eÛf.k ysáh ksid kej; l=vqj,g weíneys jqKd' ta;a uf.a ys; lsõfõu fï ld,lKaKs riaidfjka bj;a fjkak lsh,hs' uy;a;hd l=vq tlal fmd,sishg fldgq fj,d ysf¾g .shdg miafia l=vq ìiakia tl ug tmdu jqKd' Ôj;a fjkak úÈyla ke;s ksid ìiakia tl lrf.k .shd' ta;a fmd,sisfhka fíreula ,enqfKau kE' ;jÿrg;a l=vq flrejdj lrkak nE lsh,d ug ys;=Kd' tlafld uefrkak fjkjd' ke;s kï Ôú; ld,hgu ysf¾g hkak fjkjd' tfyu jqfKd;a uf.a orefjd ;=kafokdg hk tkux ke;s fjkjd' ta ksid ioygu l=vqj,ska wE;a fjkak ´k lsh,d ys;df.k ;uhs fï wdh;khg wdfõ'''’’



‘‘oeka uu fï uOHia:dkhg weú;a udi folhs' uq,a i;sfha l=vq ke;s ksid weÛg oreKq fõokdjla oekqKd' tal bjif.k ysáhd' oeka kï ug l=vq wmamsßhhs' l=vq ke;sj fyd|g Ôj;a fjkak mqq¿jka' ta;a wms Ôj;a fjÉp j;a;g hkak nhhs' tal ;kslru u;a j<la' kej; wms j;a;g .sfhd;a u;a j<g jefgkjdu ;uhs' tal k;r lrkak wudrehs' ta ksid uy;a;hd ysfrka ksoyia fjklï fï uOHia:dkfha b|,d orefjd ;=kafokdj;a wrf.k wms ÿr m<d;l" msáir .ulg .syska Ôj;a fjkjd' t;fldg wmsg l=,shla lrf.k orejkag W.kakf.k u;ska ksoyia fj,d Ôj;a fjkak mq¿jka' ;jÿrg;a j;af;a Ôj;a jqfKd;a wms jf.au wfma orefjd;a u;ao%jHhg weíneys fj,d ysf¾ ú,x.=fõ jeá,d kdia;s fj,d hkjd' wms ld,lKaKs jqKd jf.a orejkag tfyu fjkak fokak nE' ta ksid wms fokaku f;areï wrf.k fld<ôka msg fjkak l;d lr.;a;d' j;af;a Ôj;a jqfK;a l=,shg' ukqiaihd riaidjg lf<;a l=,S jev' wmsg fldfya .sh;a l=,S f.hla wrf.k l=,shla lrf.k Ôj;a fjkak mq¿jka'''’’

‘‘wjqreÿ oyihla tl È.g l=vq ìõjd' l=vq ìiakia l<d' fyd|g i,a,s yïn l<d' wd;,a .;a;d' ta;a ta yeu foalskau ,enqfKa ;djld,sl i;=gla' wmsg lsh,d lsisu fohla b;=re lrf.k kE' ;sfhkafka we|f.k bkak we÷ï lvu¨ ú;rhs' oeka ug ´k i,a,s yïn lrkak fkfuhs" mjq,la úÈyg i;=áka Ôj;a fjkakhs' fuÉpr ld,hla wfma mjq, ;=< yiankaÙ úÈyg ysáh ug ìß|la jf.a Ôj;a fjkakhs' kej; uu fu;eksx hkafk wms Ôj;a fjÉp j;a;g fkfuhs ÿr .ulg'''’’ fndfyda whg l< je/qÈ wjfndaO jk úg kej; yefrkakg fkdyels ;rug fndfyda ÿr f.dia isà' jhiska wvlaj;a f.jkakg l,sfhka is;a;sg uf;a wd§kj f;areï hEu" lreulaldr l=vq fjf<|dfuka ñfokakg is;a my< ùu ta ore ;sfokdf.a jdikdjls' tfia fkdfjkak keÛsÜg meÿfrka f;a fjkqjg fydr wrlal= fndk" u;a l=vq Wrk fkdÈhqKq j;= iudchl§ is;a;s,df.a orejka o u;a j<g jeàu k;r l< fkdyelsh'

fld<U j;= hkq iudch úkdY lrk wj,x .=ínEhïh' l=vq" .xcd melÜ fjkafka o" fydr wrlal= fmfrkafka o ta j;=j,h' ñkSurejka" uxfld,a,ldrhka" mslafmdlÜldrhka ,.skafka o ta j;=j,h' l=vq melÜ tl fjkqfjka ìß| fjk ñksfyl=g úl=Kk ‘msïms‘ ieñhka isákafka o ta j;=j,h' tfyõ j;= ixialD;shlska wcdi;a;,d ñi nqÿjre ìys fjkafka ke;' wOHdmk oekqfuka fudg jqjo orejka iuÛ j;af;ka msgùug is;a;s,d .;a ;SrKh kqjKlaldrh''' wm th w.h l< hq;=h''

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